Some problems don’t have to be solved by actions or words. Time will solve some problems in and of itself. It can happen if you are strong and loving enough to get out of the way and let Spirit work in Its own perfect timing.
– John-Roger (From: Relationships: Love, Marriage and Spirit, p. 36) (Some problems don’t have to be solved)
Othr approach with the excerpt The way out book (John-Roger) P47
If you are in a position of being destroyed by a form, by a situation that you seem unable to control, that’s your dilemma. If a young man is being rejected by the girl he desires, his first step in resolving the dilemma could be the understanding of, “Wow, I can’t have her. That’s my dilemma. That’s my karmic
flow right now. So since I can’t have her, I ’m just going to do what I can do.”
Many times, however, the image of that girl will continue to reappear in his mind, and it will be very difficult for him to keep himself in balance. If he allows that image to stay, if he masturbates with her in his mind, if he puts energy with that image, he is creating and perpetuating his dilemma. He’s putting
everything into an image that has nothing to do with his present involvement. The way to change the situation is to insert, at the time of the greatest energy, at the time of climax, a new image and move the sexual energy into that new image.
Soon he will no longer feel the great desire for her. That’s one way to handle the dilemma. The image now takes the energy and moves into another framework, according to your understanding. The faster you can understand your dilemma, either by being told, by reading, by being confronted, by direct experience, or by anything else, the faster you can immediately turn from and pass on the learning, the training, and the experience to the next person. Then there is an immediate change which is the upward flow of energy.
These dilemmas that you create for yourself can be changed, can be understood and dissolved. But you have to be eternally watchful and alert.
